How do you help someone who has no self-love and is on a self-destructive path?
January 9th, 2009
yoyo asked:
He’s 28yrs old and always struggled with anger and frustration problems because of his ADD. He graduated college in November but has no job and still living with his parents.
Ever since he was a little boy, he believed he would die young. He says that his self-destructive ways are intentional so that he will die young.
His daily routine is to wake up at 4 pm, have a ciggarette, eat one meal, hop onto the computer and play games and smoke weed until 5 or 6 in the morning.
His parents are never home so they don’t know about these habits. He lies completely to their faces about what he does all day and his parents buy everything he says. If they only knew how troubled he really was. He just obviously doesn’t do anything for his future because he’s not planning on living in the future. He has no love for himself or anything else….
What should I do? I’m the only person that knows how truly destructive he is. How could I help him? Where can I get information to learn to help him?
CARISSA
He’s 28yrs old and always struggled with anger and frustration problems because of his ADD. He graduated college in November but has no job and still living with his parents.
Ever since he was a little boy, he believed he would die young. He says that his self-destructive ways are intentional so that he will die young.
His daily routine is to wake up at 4 pm, have a ciggarette, eat one meal, hop onto the computer and play games and smoke weed until 5 or 6 in the morning.
His parents are never home so they don’t know about these habits. He lies completely to their faces about what he does all day and his parents buy everything he says. If they only knew how troubled he really was. He just obviously doesn’t do anything for his future because he’s not planning on living in the future. He has no love for himself or anything else….
What should I do? I’m the only person that knows how truly destructive he is. How could I help him? Where can I get information to learn to help him?
CARISSA