My Self Improvement

they call me Bindi asked:


i know a person who attended a well known self help gure from the USA this person has spent thousands of dollars on seminars books and cds
She even traveled interstate to attend a meeting she has gone 3 years in a row she has been told by 5 years she will have a better job she will also have a happy relationship and be financally secure well on her way to being a millionare within 5 years
I personally dont agree and think its imoral and fraud to get a group of incecure people take there money and tell them to jump up and down and wave your arms up in the air and shout i will be a winner
For the record this person still has the same job and the same rate of pay and is still single, this is just my oppinion but surelly the most insecure person would have the sence that to inprove yourself you dont need to pay somebody else thousands of dollars i told my friend maybe she should do some courses and maybe join a few social clubs not spent money on some money hungry guru
GIVE ME A BREAK

JESUS

martyboy asked:


I rent a 3 bed house. I’m self employed. Things are going fine at the moment, but my worry is that if I got sick or had an accident I wouldn’t be able to pay the rent. Would I get any help ? Housing benefit/sickness benefit ?

ROSALIND

Win Noble asked:


I am interested in ways to help my girlfriend realize she isn’t fat and is actually beautiful. Your thoughts?

Besides, why are so many women so self-loathing????
Chang… I said my girlfriend not your mother.

Seriously, she is 5′7″ 110 lbs. Looks like a barbie.
Sky Witch… you obviously mistyped your name.

Chang’s original comment was the my girlfriend was “fat.” That is why I left my comment.

Think before you speak. Thanks.

KARL

Azure Horse asked:


My son is very confident at home but school is another matter. He rates home a 10 and school a 3 for confidence. He is worried about good grades, but is extremely smart and has never had bad grades. I think this is a reason for his misbehavior at school. I have a meeting with his teacher monday and want suggestions to help this situation. Thanks.
He is in second grade. 8yrs old

ERIKA

football mom asked:


Help! We have a white prom dress with beading and my daughter used a self tanner before wearing it and now it is stained (inside and out) with brown self tanner! The dry cleaner will not take it because of the beading. This dress has only been worn once and is too expensive to get rid of. Help!

DIANE

anonymous asked:


I have come to the determination and conclusion that self-absorption is actually good. It DOESN’T mean selfishness, but focusing on the self to realize what is a good life, improve introspection to work on weaknesses, intellect, habits, change bad to good habits, realize the wrong one may have done to others, feel remorse, reflect, etc.

GENEVIEVE

Cat asked:


I have fairly low self-esteem and am extremely insecure at times, especially in relationships. Are there any good books or programs that might help me with my self-esteem issues?
I’m not religious, so I would really like suggestions that don’t include religion or praying. Thanks!

MAX

forkingspoons asked:


I have Gynecomastia, it is a condition of large female like breasts on a male body. This is not caused by excessive weight in my case as I weight 165 lbs and am 6 ft tall..the weight problem one is callsed Psudo-Gynecomastia because it isn’t really gynecomastia. I was wondering who I can get help from to have surgery or help my self image. I don’t get involved in social activity or have a job because I used to be teased in school all the time which caused me to go into hiding for years. I am 24 now still living at home and can’t find anyone to help me, I don’t know what to do. I tried to force myself to get over it but I can’t, I did wear an ace bandage to compress them flat and that gave me a large confidence boost but those are so uncomfortable to wrap around me. I just wish to look like a normal male, any ideas?
I Know certain conditions or drug use can cause this, I have never taken drugs and I am not sure if I have a bad liver or hyper thyroid but this is what I am wondering, what charity can help me as I do not have money.
I have researched the condition for several years, I know plastic surgery can solve it but thats like $5000 or so which I do not have, I’ve tried talking to charities before they just ignore me. I wrote to Oprah and she ignored me, I wrote to dr phil and he ignored me, I have no insurance this is why I am seeking charity help. Sorry I did not make this clear before =\

LARRY

Netta asked:


I am just a friend but he has so much to offer. He’s got low self esteem and seems to tell people what they want to hear. All I have been doing is listening to him and giving him advice when I feel it’s appropriate. And I let him know that I am not judgemental because I have made mistakes myself. We’re only human. Tomorrow is another day. And I DON’T tell him what he should or shouldn’t do. Is there more I can do or say?

ZELMA

Tony M asked:


Which self-help topics are the most highly searched for by people looking for how to information? Would it be breaking bad habits, motivational, achieving goals or something else?
Which self-help topics are the most highly searched for by people looking for how to information? Would it be breaking bad habits, motivational, achieving goals or something else?
Is there a way to look up this info?

JENIFER